salam takziah....

I received the sad news this morning  that a childhood friend of mine Qairil Anwar Abd Rahman passed away in sleep....leaving a wife and two kids...how sad...:((   Salam takziah buat keluarga arwah....semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat....Al Fatihah.

~ Ya Allah, bless us with a pure life & easy death and return to You without grief and difficulty~

:)

The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh)said, ”When a husband and wife look at each other with love, Allah looks at both of them with mercy.” ~ Sahih Bukhari

laundry ...........

I just settled mengerjakan kain baju yang berbakul-bakul..aiyooo..so penat..!!normally I do 2 loads a day tapi dah berjalan sabtu ahad so hari nie berkerja keras lah.......alhamdullilah ,all done tapi now I sakit belakang...huhuhuhu..........tapi tulah, esok datang lagi 2 bakul.........hmmmmmm.....just never ending.........!!!!!!

Afrina sings her favourite song.....

afrina likes this song so much..no,yes,please,thank you song...tapi everytime bile I nak record die takmo nyanyi...,akhirnya ni dapat gak i pujuk her to sing..tp macam mau tak mau jer...huhuhu...

screamfree me...insyaAllah...

I've finished read this book...and now I really hope I can cut down my screaming n yellin and jadi mak yang lebih cool...hehehe.....Here I nak share the 12 principles of screamfree parenting.....
1. Parenting is Not About Kids, it’s About Parents
2. Growing Up is Hard to Do, Especially for Grown-ups
3. If You’re Not Under Control, then You Cannot be in Charge
4. Begin with the End in Mind, but Let Go of the Final Results
5.  Put on Your Own Oxygen Mask First
6. Kids Need their Space
7. Resistance is Futile: Go with the Flow
8. You Don’t Really Know Them (and Neither does Dadima)
9. Parents Set the Table by Setting the Tone
10. Let the Consequences Do the Screaming
11. Empty Threats are Really Broken Promises
12. You are Not Responsible for Your Kids, but You are Responsible to Them

hi!

I'm Yani, married with 3 kids..I'm a SAHM and this is actually my second attempt at blogging.....hmmmm..my first one??? daa lupe password!!! hehehe..why am I here??? hmmm....I wish to share any stories with all of you especially moms out there....maybe we can berkongsi  resepi ,berkongsi parenting tips and ape-ape je lah.... so hi everyone!!!

 In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful